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Enhancing Intimacy: The Best Sex Positions to Use with a Vibrator

Incorporating a vibrator into partnered sex is a fantastic way to enhance pleasure for everyone involved. The key is to choose positions that allow for easy access and comfortable handling of the toy. Here are some highly effective positions to try:

1. Spooning

How it works: Both partners lie on their sides, with the partner behind (often the penetrator) curled against the back of the receiver. It’s a intimate and relaxed position.

2. Doggy Style

How it works: The receiving partner is on their hands and knees, while the other partner kneels behind them for penetration.

3. Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl

How it works: The receiving partner sits on top of the penetrating partner, who is lying on their back. They can face towards their partner’s head (Cowgirl) or their feet (Reverse Cowgirl).

4. Modified Missionary

How it works: This is a classic face-to-face position where the receiving partner lies on their back with their legs up. The key is modification for access.

5. Seated Edge of the Bed

How it works: The receiving partner sits on the edge of a bed or sturdy table, with their feet on the floor or wrapped around their partner. The other partner stands between their legs for penetration.

6. Partner on Top with a Hands-Free Toy

How it works: This is less about a specific position and more about the type of toy. A couples’ vibrator (like the We-Vibe Sync) is designed to be worn internally during sex.

Tips for Success:

  • Communication is Key: Talk about what feels good before, during, and after. Guide each other’s hands.

  • Lube is Your Friend: Use a generous amount of lubricant to reduce friction and make the vibrations feel even better.

  • Start Low: Begin with the vibrator on its lowest setting and gradually increase intensity to avoid overstimulation.

  • Experiment: The “best” position is the one that feels best for you and your partner. Don’t be afraid to get creative and try new things.

Ultimately, using a vibrator during sex is about shared pleasure and exploration. These positions are a wonderful starting point for discovering new levels of intimacy and sensation together.