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The best sex positions with a vibrator

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Enhancing Intimacy: The Best Sex Positions to Use with a Vibrator

Incorporating a vibrator into partnered sex is a fantastic way to enhance pleasure for everyone involved. The key is to choose positions that allow for easy access and comfortable handling of the toy. Here are some highly effective positions to try:

1. Spooning

How it works: Both partners lie on their sides, with the partner behind (often the penetrator) curled against the back of the receiver. It’s a intimate and relaxed position.

2. Doggy Style

How it works: The receiving partner is on their hands and knees, while the other partner kneels behind them for penetration.

3. Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl

How it works: The receiving partner sits on top of the penetrating partner, who is lying on their back. They can face towards their partner’s head (Cowgirl) or their feet (Reverse Cowgirl).

4. Modified Missionary

How it works: This is a classic face-to-face position where the receiving partner lies on their back with their legs up. The key is modification for access.

5. Seated Edge of the Bed

How it works: The receiving partner sits on the edge of a bed or sturdy table, with their feet on the floor or wrapped around their partner. The other partner stands between their legs for penetration.

6. Partner on Top with a Hands-Free Toy

How it works: This is less about a specific position and more about the type of toy. A couples’ vibrator (like the We-Vibe Sync) is designed to be worn internally during sex.

Tips for Success:

  • Communication is Key: Talk about what feels good before, during, and after. Guide each other’s hands.

  • Lube is Your Friend: Use a generous amount of lubricant to reduce friction and make the vibrations feel even better.

  • Start Low: Begin with the vibrator on its lowest setting and gradually increase intensity to avoid overstimulation.

  • Experiment: The “best” position is the one that feels best for you and your partner. Don’t be afraid to get creative and try new things.

Ultimately, using a vibrator during sex is about shared pleasure and exploration. These positions are a wonderful starting point for discovering new levels of intimacy and sensation together.

Penis Stroker

What Is A Penis Stroker?

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A Penis Stroker (also commonly known as a male masturbator or pocket pussy) is a type of sex toy designed for external male masturbation. Its primary function is to simulate the sensation of vaginal, oral, or anal intercourse.

Key Components and How It Works:

  1. External Sleeve/Casing: This is the outer part, which can be made from various materials like silicone, thermoplastic elastomer (TPE), or cyber skin. It is often designed to be held comfortably in the hand.
  2. Internal Sleeve/Tunnel: This is the internal canal that the penis enters. It is the most important part for sensation. These sleeves are meticulously designed with textures, ridges, nodules, and tight chambers intended to provide stimulating friction and a realistic feeling.
  3. Lubrication: The use of a good-quality water-based lubricant is essential. It reduces friction, increases comfort, enhances sensation, and protects the material of the toy from damage

Common Types and Variations:

  • Open-Ended Strokers: These are simple sleeves that are open on both ends. They are easy to clean and dry.
  • Closed-Ended Strokers (Pocket Pussies): These have one closed end, which can create suction and a more enveloping, realistic sensation.
  • Vibrating Strokers: Some models include a small bullet vibrator or have built-in vibrations to provide additional stimulation.
  • Automatic/Hands-Free Strokers: These are more advanced (and expensive) devices that often connect to an app. They use mechanics to provide automatic stroking, sucking, and twisting motions without the user having to move the toy manually.

Purpose and Benefits:

  • Solo Pleasure: To provide a variety of stimulating sensations for masturbation that are different from using one’s hand.
  • Spice Up Partner Play: Can be used by partners during foreplay or intercourse to add new sensations.
  • Training and Stamination: Some people use them to practice lasting longer during sex or to help with issues like delayed ejaculation.
  • Discretion: Many are designed to be discreet and are easily stored away.

Important Considerations:

  • Material: Softer, body-safe materials like silicone and TPE feel more realistic but require specific care. Silicone is non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easier to clean thoroughly. TPE is very soft and realistic but is porous, meaning it can harbor bacteria if not cleaned and dried perfectly after every use.
  • Cleaning & Maintenance: Proper hygiene is critical. The toy must be washed with toy cleaner or mild soap and warm water after each use and allowed to dry completely to prevent the growth of mold and bacteria.
  • Lubricant: Always use a water-based lubricant. Oil-based or silicone-based lubricants can degrade the materials that most strokers are made from.

In short, a penis stroker is a masturbation aid designed to enhance solo or partnered sexual pleasure through textured, stimulating internal channels, often with features like suction or vibration.

Automatic Male Masturbators

What Are Automatic Male Masturbators?

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What Are Automatic Male Masturbators?

Automatic male masturbators (also known as male strokers, automatic strokers, or hands-free sex toys) are devices designed to simulate sexual stimulation through automated, rhythmic motions. Unlike manual masturbation sleeves, these devices use motors to provide movement, allowing for a hands-free experience that can mimic a variety of sensations, from gentle caressing to intense, rhythmic stroking.

How Do They Work?

Most automatic masturbators consist of a few key components:

  1. Motor: The core of the device, which provides the power for the movement.

  2. Sleeve/Insert: A soft, often textured, and flexible sleeve (typically made of TPE, TPR, or silicone) where penetration occurs. This is the part that makes contact with the penis.

  3. Mechanism: This translates the motor’s rotation into a stroking, vibrating, or contracting motion. Common mechanisms include:

  • Reciprocating (Back-and-Forth): A rod or carriage that moves the entire sleeve linearly.
  • Rotating: The sleeve itself or internal nubs rotate inside the device.
  • Contracting/Pulsating: Rings or sections of the sleeve rhythmically squeeze and release.
  • Vibrating: Often used in combination with other motions.

    4.Housing/Shell: The outer casing that holds all the components together.

    5.Controls: Buttons or a companion app to adjust settings like speed, pattern, and stroke length.

Types of Automatic Masturbators

1. Hands-Free Strokers (The Most Common Type)

  • Description: These are the classic automatic masturbators. They are often designed to be mounted on a surface (like a table or chair) or held between the legs. They feature a linear stroking motion with adjustable speed and stroke length.

  • Best For: Users who want a realistic, thrusting sensation and true hands-free operation.

2. Vibrating & Pulsating Sleeves

  • Description: These focus less on long strokes and more on intense, localized stimulation through powerful vibrations, contractions, and internal rotations. They are often more compact.

  • Best For: Users who prefer vibration over stroking or want a more discreet, travel-friendly toy.

3. Interactive & App-Controlled Toys

  • Description: This is a growing segment. These toys connect via Bluetooth to a smartphone app, allowing for:
  • Remote control by a partner from anywhere in the world.

Best For: Long-distance couples, tech enthusiasts, and those wanting a highly immersive experience.

Key Features to Consider When Buying

  • Sensation Type: Do you prefer long, gliding strokes or intense, vibrating contractions?

  • Stroke Length: A longer stroke length (e.g., 4+ inches) generally provides a more realistic and varied sensation.

  • Speed & Power: Check reviews to see if the motor is powerful enough to maintain speed under pressure and doesn’t sound like a lawnmower.

  • Noise Level: This is crucial for discretion. App-controlled toys are often quieter than their full-stroking counterparts.

  • Material & Sleeve: The internal sleeve should be made of body-safe, porous materials like TPE/TPR (which require careful cleaning and powdering) or non-porous silicone (easier to sanitize but less common). Check if the sleeve is replaceable.

  • Power Source: Does it use built-in rechargeable batteries (convenient) or disposable batteries (good for travel)? What’s the battery life?

  • Ease of Cleaning: This is critical for hygiene and longevity. Look for devices where the sleeve is easily removable for cleaning. Avoid toys with complex mechanisms that cannot get wet.

Final Tips

  • Always use water-based lubricant. Oil-based or silicone-based lubricants will degrade the material of the sleeve.
  • Start slow. Begin on the lowest setting to get accustomed to the sensation.
  • Read reviews. Video reviews can be especially helpful to see the toy in action and hear its noise level.