How to use the masturbator?
/in Uncategorized/by luoseUsing a masturbator (also called a male masturbator or pocket pussy) can be a great way to explore pleasure solo. Here is a comprehensive guide covering everything from preparation to cleaning.
Step 1: Preparation is Key
1. Lubricant is Non-Negotiable:
This is the most important rule. Without lubricant, the experience will be uncomfortable and can damage the toy.
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Type: Use a high-quality, water-based or silicone-based lubricant. Avoid oil-based lubes as they can degrade the material of most masturbators.
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Check the Toy’s Instructions: Most TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) toys require water-based lube. Silicone-based lube can damage silicone toys.
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Amount: Don’t be shy! Use more than you think you need. You can always add more during use.
2. Warm Up the Sleeve:
The experience is much more realistic and pleasant if the sleeve isn’t cold.
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Warm Water Bath: Place the sleeve in a zip-lock bag (to keep it dry) and submerge it in warm (not boiling) water for 5-10 minutes.
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Heating Rod: Some brands sell specific electric heating rods designed for this purpose.
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Heating Lube: You can buy lubricants that have a warming effect when applied.
3. Clean Yourself:
Make sure your penis is clean. This is more hygienic and will make cleaning the toy afterward much easier.
Step 2: Using the Masturbator
1. Apply Lubricant:
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Put a generous amount of lube inside the sleeve.
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Also, apply a good amount to your penis.
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You can even add a few drops of lube into the entrance hole before you start.
2. Find a Comfortable Position:
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You can hold the toy in your hand while sitting or lying down.
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If the toy comes in a case or has a hard shell, you can wedge it between pillows or a mattress to use it hands-free.
3. Enter Slowly and Gently:
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Don’t force it. Gently guide yourself into the entrance.
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Take your time to adjust to the sensation.
4. Experiment with Movement and Pressure:
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Your Hand: Use your hand to move the toy up and down your penis. You can control the speed, pressure, and angle.
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Hands-Free: If secured, you can thrust into the toy, controlling the depth and rhythm.
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Vary the Grip: Squeezing the outside of the toy can increase tightness and sensation.
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Explore Different Speeds: Alternate between slow, sensual movements and faster, more intense ones.
5. Listen to Your Body:
The goal is pleasure, not endurance. Go at a pace that feels good for you.
Step 3: The All-Important Aftercare (Cleaning)
Cleaning your masturbator immediately after use is critical for its longevity and your hygiene. Bacteria and mold can grow quickly if not cleaned properly.
1. Rinse with Warm Water:
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Turn the sleeve inside out if possible (check the manufacturer’s instructions, as some delicate textures shouldn’t be turned). Rinse the inside and outside thoroughly with warm water to remove all lube and bodily fluids.
2. Clean with Mild Soap:
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Use a mild, fragrance-free soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Antibacterial soap is a good option.
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Gently wash the entire sleeve, inside and out.
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Avoid harsh soaps, alcohols, or bleach.
3. Rinse Thoroughly:
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Make sure all soap residue is completely rinsed off.
4. Dry Completely:
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This is crucial to prevent mold and mildew.
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Pat the outside dry with a clean, lint-free towel.
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Dry the Inside: Use a clean microfiber cloth on a finger, a paper towel twisted into a point, or a dedicated drying stick to absorb all moisture from the internal canal.
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Let it air dry completely in a well-ventilated area before storing it. Do not store it while it’s still damp.
5. Powdering (Optional but Recommended for TPE toys):
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Once the toy is completely dry, you can dust it with cornstarch or renewing powder (sold by toy manufacturers).
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This restores the silky-smooth, skin-like feel of the TPE material and prevents it from getting sticky.
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Rinse off the powder before your next use.
6. Storage:
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Store your clean, dry masturbator in its original case or a breathable cloth bag in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
Important Tips and Safety Notes
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Check the Material: Most masturbators are made of body-safe TPE or silicone. Know what yours is made of to choose the right lubricant and cleaning method.
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Inspect for Damage: Regularly check your toy for any tears, rips, or signs of mold. If you find any, it’s time to replace it.
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Never Share: Masturbators are for solo use. Sharing them can spread infections.
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Use a Condom: For even easier cleanup, or if you have sensitivities, you can use a condom with the toy. Just remember to still use lubricant.
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Listen to the Sensation: If it ever feels painful or uncomfortable, stop. You may need more lube or a different angle.
By following these steps, you can ensure a safe, pleasurable, and long-lasting experience with your masturbator. Enjoy exploring your pleasure




